Young mother who allowed abusive punishment of son pleads guilty to lesser charge

By Sharyn  L. Decker
Lewis County Sirens news reporter

CHEHALIS – The Winlock mother of a 4-year-old boy who was abused by her live-in boyfriend will avoid jail time herself if she follows through with parenting classes and abides by other court ordered restrictions.

Ryon T. Connery, 31, was arrested at the end of November after the boy was found with numerous bruises and injuries and detectives learned of punishments inflicted such getting sprayed with a hose while forced to do pushups for various infractions such as wetting his pants and stealing food in the home.

Connery pleaded guilty to two counts of third-degree child assault and was sentenced last month to 16 months in prison.

A soon as he was convicted, prosecutors charged the 23-year-old mother, Heather L. McNurlin, as an accomplice, contending she was present when the abuse was inflicted, and some of it was even her idea. The little boy was taken out of the home McNurlin and Connery shared and placed with his grandmother.

Lewis County Deputy Prosecutor Joely O’Rourke said she and defense attorney Don Blair reached an agreement with a lesser charge of attempted assault of a child in the third degree, or conspiracy to commit the offense.

“She pleaded guilty, she didn’t get any jail time, but she’s on very extensive probation for the next two years,” O’Rourke said this afternoon.

O’Rourke said she thinks it’s in the best interest for the boy that his mother continue with parenting classes. They were already ordered by a family court judge in a separate action, as part of McNurlin’s requirements to regain custody of the boy, she said.

“She was really not the principle concern in that case, it was Mr. Connery,” O’Rourke said.

When the child was brought to the hospital at the end of November, he had a broken finger he said occurred when he dropped a weight on it, a scraped nose he said was from falling on his face trying to get away from a spanking and he spoke of being dunked in a dirty outdoor pool, according to charging documents.

A doctor who reviewed the case opined the youngster was malnourished and was the victim of starvation as well as abuse, both mentally and physically, according to the documents.

The mother said she and Connery had been in a dating relationship about four months. The abuse occurred between last July and into November, according to court documents.

Lewis County Superior Court Judge Nelson Hunt agreed with the lawyers’ recommendation and sentenced McNurlin on Thursday to 364 days in jail, suspended for 24 months as long as she complies with court ordered requirements such as the classes.

She was also ordered to pay various fines and fees and is prohibited from having any contact with Connery.

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5 Responses to “Young mother who allowed abusive punishment of son pleads guilty to lesser charge”

  1. Dominoe says:

    So this twit let’s her live in lay of a few months starve, and torture her kid, and some of it was “even her idea”, but she’s not the main concern so she’s going to get her kid back??? It’s clear CPS and the family court system really do NOT have this (or any) child’s best interest in mind. This whole county is backwards as hell. Looks like they’re waiting for her to follow in Becky Heupel’s disgraceful footsteps before they help this poor boy. Please excuse me…I have to go vomit now.

  2. SeenItAll says:

    UNBELEIVABLE!!! And no, Lewis County will not monitor her. The commissioner for family courts is a joke, it is all about money. If an individual, with an attorney brought a case against this woman, then maybe, but if there is no money involved, FORGET IT!

  3. sunshinegirl says:

    Hell no I don’t trust Lewis Co. Childrens services to police her , but I am absolutely 100% sure that when the next boyfriend kills him she will finally get some help. Also the boyfriend punished him but who starved him ???? The dog???? This is a joke and everyone knows it. She should have been his first defense and she let the Monster in !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Good Lord what a miscarriage of justice.

  4. Uintah says:

    Hope the court and family services can be trusted to monitor the mother’s probation competently. Anyone have any experience with Lewis Co’s record on such things?

  5. GuiltyBystander says:

    To paraphrase Keanu Reaves from the movie Parenthood: “You need a license to buy a dog, to drive a car – hell, you even need a license to catch a fish. But they’ll let anyone be a parent.”